Let me preface this by saying I am NOT getting married anytime in the near future. However, if I was, these are some dresses I would love to try (all from J. Crew, of course):
The Luxe Drapey Jacquard Turner Gown, $1300
I am in love with the neckline of this dress, and the jacquard is a nice departure from your typical lace or satin. So chic and elegant.
Lisette Gown, $2000
This dress is just so unique. I love how the flower applique carries on up the straps of the dress. This would be perfect for a beach or countryside wedding.
Eyelet Cascade Gown, $1200
This sweet little number would look absolutely adorable for a summertime shotgun wedding!
And I would just absolutely FORCE my bridesmaids to wear either one of these cute berry-trim dresses:
Berry-Trim Strapless Nathalie Dress, $350
Berry-Trim Nathalie Tank Dress, $350
The color would be bright peacock, which is a pretty teal that would flatter everyone's skintone, and would work practically year-round.
While J. Crew's bridesmaid dresses are on par with or slightly more expensive with your typical bridesmaid dresses, I think one of their greatest advantages is that they have versatility (a.k.a. they don't just look like bridesmaid dresses).
I am amazed with the pricing on the wedding gowns, however. Many of the styles are unique and beautiful, and cost much, much less than your typical wedding dress (or at least much less than something I would expect to buy). Plus I like how many of the gown have straps, which are pretty much impossible to find these days in the sea of strapless wedding dresses!